EXPECTATIONS MUST BE : BASED ON GOD’S WORD NOT ON WISHFUL THINKING NOT ON PREDICTING RESULTS OF YOUR EFFORTS NOT ON HEARTFELT DESIRES FOR THE OTHER PERSON  ….OTHERWISE, OUR LIFE WILL BE FILLED WITH HUGE DISAPPOINTMENTS, ONE RIGHT AFTER THE OTHER.   BUT, IF OUR EXPECTATIONS ARE BIBLICAL, WE CAN APPROACH EACH DAY WITH JOY, PEACE, AND THE EXPECTATION THAT GOD